No Room for Mean Girls: Setting the Standard at Merida Teens Club

There’s an important discussion on the table today. The community here is all about coming together from different places to build a space where everyone can feel safe and happy. But it’s essential to remember that a happy, healthy community only works if everyone is respectful and kind to one another. It’s a real “No Mean Girls” zone here, got it? (And yes, that means no mean Guys either)

1. The Power of Diversity

People in this club hail from the U.S., Canada, Mexico, and other places around the world. That means there are tons of stories and backgrounds merging in one place. It’s something to be celebrated, not a reason for negativity.

2. Words Have Weight

When someone speaks about another person, they should pause and think. Would they like it if someone said that about them? Probably not. So it’s better to hold that thought. Remember to THINK before speaking.

3. Apologize When It’s Due

Mistakes happen. But if someone realizes that their words have hurt another, it’s their duty to apologize. It shows maturity and understanding.

4. Everyone Belongs

Inclusion isn’t just a nice word; it’s a rule. It means actively making sure that everyone feels a part of what’s happening, that they feel they belong here, in this cool community that’s being built together.

5. Bullying? Not Cool

If someone witnesses bullying, it’s on them to stand up and say it’s not cool. It takes courage to be the person who stops negativity in its tracks.

6. Growing Side by Side

Everyone in the club is learning and growing, all the time. It’s a journey that should be taken together, with understanding and mutual support.

7. Keeping Conversations Positive

A little positivity can go a long way. Encouraging others to focus on the good stuff helps build a happy vibe in the community.

8. Sharing the Spotlight

In this club, everyone gets a chance to shine. It’s important to appreciate everyone’s input and recognize the value they add to the community.

9. Being a Good Listener

Sometimes all someone needs is a listening ear. It’s about offering a space where others can express themselves without judgment.

10. Authenticity Wins

Everyone is encouraged to be themselves, unapologetically. It creates a space where everyone can be real and honest with each other.

So, here’s the bottom line

The Merida Teens Club is designed to be a space of community, connection, and belonging. It’s where everyone should feel they can build great relationships and learn from one another.

But to be very clear, if someone chooses to act in a way that goes against these values, bringing others down or being a ‘mean girl’, that person might need to find another place to hang.

This is a collective effort, a community being built on respect, understanding, and genuine kindness. Let’s not lose sight of the goal — to create a space where everyone feels at home.

Let’s work together, keep it kind, and build the best Merida Teens Club possible, a place everyone can be proud of.